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Stick Out Your Tongue...

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...and say aaahhhh!! There was a recent day in March when I was on my way to work, large fluffy snowflakes were falling. I was a bit irritated at first. I am done with winter and ready for the blooming of spring flowers, thoughts and ideas! As I looked up, I had an urge to try to catch some. I was running late and so I didn't. When did life become so busy that there's no time to stick out your tongue and catch a snowflake? When did I decide I couldn't take a split moment from the hustle to tap in to my inner child and have some fun? The entire drive to work I pondered my actions. There really is a need for slowing down and enjoying the little things that come to us. My mind was contemplating the moment I lost... I would have stared up at those flakes, head tilted back, tongue out catching flakes. Maybe even arms outstretched and twirling slightly to see how many would fall on my tongue. The thoughts of this brought about elation. Note to myself, do not lose these mome...

No Bluffing

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This isn't the begginning of post about April Fool's day. That's no bluffing. On a random nice Saturday in March a road trip was in order. The sun was shining, I collected some good company and hit the streets. Driving a couple hours, we landed at Chimney Bluffs State Park and were ready for adventure. Being March and having rained, we figured the trails would be a little bit muddy... Some places were like little ponds while others looked like a flat out obstacle course for trucks and ATV's. We tried our best to navigate around the muddy spots, but part way through, it was realized to be a lost cause. My sneakers are still covered in mud. The view, would be worth it. Passing mile markers and friendly hikers with their furry friends enjoying the fresh air, the view unfolded!! The clouds were moody at times, beautiful always. While enjoying the beautiful scenery, small droplets began to fall. Then they became harder and larger. A couple went by and mentioned ...

Gentlemen's Kerchief

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I always thought that men who had handkerchief's in their suit pocket were being fashionable or stylish. Once I inquired about a man's handkerchief and his reply was "you never know when a lady may need it." He carried his, not for style or neccessarily for his own use, but to offer out of thoughtfullness and kindness. I adored this idea. Why not carry around an item with it's purpose of letting someone know you care. I hope that this concept doesn't die out. It is rare now that I see anyone with a handkerchief. I believe this world needs more handkerchief's handed out. Dishing out kindess doesn't go out of style.

The Art of Listening

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 By definition according to Britannica Dictionary "art" is "   something that is created with imagination and skill and that is beautiful or that expresses important ideas or feelings ." Listening is a skill in my opinion. One which takes practice. Have you ever been in conversation with someone and not given them your full attention? It happens. More often  than  we hope, I am sure. Our minds are so full at times, that it is hard to focus on conversation. Truly hearing someone is one of the best gifts to be given.  Opening up to someone allows for vulnerability. That is a hard truth. When someone trusts enough to do so, it can be heart breaking if the  receiving end is not open to listening/hearing. I was once told don't ask someone how they are doing if you are not prepared to listen to their answer. I have carried this with me for some time and I genuinely strive for that philosophy. I will admit, it is hard at times in the fast paced world we are in. Ou...

Fantasy Elixir

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 Magically hidden in the hills of Cortland County,  Dragonfyre Distillery , has been on my "want to go to" list. One weekend while kayaking with friends, we were in close proximity, we decided to wander that way.  Greeted by signs of low flying dragons and fairies, the grounds were gorgeous. Soaking in all the wonderment, we didn't notice that there were no cars in the lot... We knocked, then realized a sign stating they were closed due to a festival. While taking in the beauty of the Hobbit House I was buzzed by a low flying dragon, alas no photo! They are quick!! I am looking forward to returning on a day when they are open and the dragon wagon is not festival going.  Follow me on Facebook View my photography

Comfort Zone

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 Every once in a while you should step out of your comfort zone. Try something new. I try to do this every once in a while. While on a recent trip I was out dining and a serviceman and woman sat across from me. I decided to thank them for their service.  Sometimes it is scary to push your boundaries and comfort levels. I believe in doing this it allows us to grow.  Be sure to push your limits every now and again as you can't gain the reward if you don't take the experience. 

Standing in Faith

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 Do you drive by certain places and just soak in the beauty of a specific spot or point at that location? I do. There is a church in Little Meadows that I pass and find the cross on the top stunning. It always seems to be standing tall, in the clouds or against the blue sky. Reminding us always that Faith is strong and guides us through stormy clouds or celebrates with us during joyous times.  Take time to be in the moment and enjoy the beauty that is given to us daily. Stand tall and strong during the stormy nights, knowing the clouds will clear. Hold true to your beliefs and be a light for others when you can.  Follow me on Facebook