Gentlemen's Kerchief

I always thought that men who had handkerchief's in their suit pocket were being fashionable or stylish. Once I inquired about a man's handkerchief and his reply was "you never know when a lady may need it." He carried his, not for style or neccessarily for his own use, but to offer out of thoughtfullness and kindness. I adored this idea. Why not carry around an item with it's purpose of letting someone know you care. I hope that this concept doesn't die out. It is rare now that I see anyone with a handkerchief. I believe this world needs more handkerchief's handed out. Dishing out kindess doesn't go out of style.

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