The Art of Listening

 By definition according to Britannica Dictionary "art" is " something that is created with imagination and skill and that is beautiful or that expresses important ideas or feelings." Listening is a skill in my opinion. One which takes practice. Have you ever been in conversation with someone and not given them your full attention? It happens. More often than we hope, I am sure. Our minds are so full at times, that it is hard to focus on conversation. Truly hearing someone is one of the best gifts to be given. 

Opening up to someone allows for vulnerability. That is a hard truth. When someone trusts enough to do so, it can be heart breaking if the receiving end is not open to listening/hearing. I was once told don't ask someone how they are doing if you are not prepared to listen to their answer. I have carried this with me for some time and I genuinely strive for that philosophy. I will admit, it is hard at times in the fast paced world we are in. Our brains full of so much life duties... work deadlines, will I have time to do laundry, what is for supper, do the kids have practice, did bills get paid and on and on. 

When we listen fully, we slow down. Embrace conversation. Engage in real communication. I love raw conversations. I love to listen to and be sure to make others feel they are heard. I will always try to give my undivided attention when listening. 

For all of these reasons, I believe listening is an art. It takes time and attention and when you hear, really hear someone, you get to know them and that is a beautiful thing. 

The next time you engage in conversation, ask yourself if you have mastered the art of listening... like any true art, it is an ongoing process of learning and honing the skill. Keep your brushes ready and listen to a masterpiece today!!